Well, I went and bought a breaker bar and broke the headers free. Scary, but they all came un-done. After that I dropped the oil pan. I had to go fishing up the oil drain tube from the bottom....but it was there and came out on my second poke with a magnet.
I've learned a lot. First, the oil sump screen would have stopped it from getting into the engine. I still would have been uncomfortable. Second, finding exhaust gasket is a bit.......still no luck. Have some on order.
The clearance is tight between the valve cover and frame. Advice: First remove the oil breather on top ot the valve cover. Then remove the fairing supports from the frame (4-10mm nuts). Next have someone watch for the dowels as you lift the cover (armed with a magnet). If you decide to check your spark plugs, do not leave them out for any length of time. Finally, when I put the dowels back in, I put some RTV under them to gaurantee they stay put next time.
As soon as I get the exhaust header gaskets, I'll be back on the road again. The cost fot this mistake: breaker bar $10, hex socket set $10, oil pan gasket $10, o-ring kit $10, header gaskets 4 @ 5.00 each, torque wrench $20, plus oil (change it a 200 miles back, it was clean). Yes, I needed some of this stuff anyway. But it still hurts.
My only fear now is that the re-used valve cover gasket might leak. Life goes on.