[[I should add that my jacket is an early generation Phoenix, maybe even first generation, and I have noticed that the mesh weave on the later jackets is tighter...In any event, I'm thinking about a perforated leather jacket, but I'm just not sure if it would be tolerable in the FL summer heat. Any hot climate riders have any experience with this??]]
First, all nylon mesh jackets from the likes of JR , Icon, etc., are junk. Really. They will probably be OK if you are in a roll, but in a drag they will not do a thing. You just found out the hard way. Things can actually get worse as the meshes can (and have) embedded themselves into the skin, requiring nasty surgery to address. My JR outfits are collecting dust in my closet.
It's hard to say if perforated leather will offer any better support in a drag. My personal speculation is that it will simply shred and disintegrate.
Although they will all have their limits, the only useful materials are full leather, or high denier nylons. Kevlar is most ideal, but expensive. Of course, you can always ask the question "what price protection"? Full leather is obviously out for you in Florida, so meshes are the only option for you.
You CAN get useful abrasion protection from a synthetic mesh jacket, but the denier count (indicating fiber density) needs to be high. Ideally, you want 1000 denier or higher. At the very least, 600. Although I don't have a denier listing for the typical JR/etc. stuff, it's equivalent denier is somewhere around 120-150. You get the idea.
I've seen only two companies that offer gear with high denier meshes, Motoport in California (which is what I ride with) and another company who's name escapes me right now (I think it starts with V). I have a mesh jacket AND pants combo (you won't forget leg protection again, will you?) made from 22% Kevlar and the rest is 1000 denier nylon, coupled with tri-laminate armor. Motoport also has nylon-only jackets made of high-denier Cordura nylon. I highly suggest perusing the site over at
http://www.motoport.com/. I'm not affiliated with these people at all, just a customer.
Needless to say, this stuff is expensive compared to the JR/etc. stuff, but there's a legitimate reason for it. Once you've had a significant fall, I don't think price really is part of the equation anymore, is it?
The other company (I wish I had some brain cells left to remember) had a mesh outfit made of 1000 denier nylon, and looked promising.
There's actually a third company in France (I forget the link right now, no brain cells left) offering riding gear in a material similar to Kevlar, but so far it's only been more fashion-oriented (as in jeans and stuff with no armor), but that may change over time. I think I may have posted a link somewhere on this site a while back about them. They had a video with a guy being dragged in denim, leather, and their material with the results of each. Hopefully they'll expand their line to full-blown riding gear with (hopefully) CE-2 armor.
Of course, most important is having good training to hopefully avoid accidents in the first place, but shit happens, no matter how skilled you may be. So ATGATT is really a must, but that gear must offer you truly useful protection in the first place. JR's only redeeming value is that they have the hottest girls on their website
Seriously, they have to be credited with the idea of mesh jackets, as I believe they started the trend, but while their idea was brilliant, their execution has been dismal.