I'm with Pitter on this one. $2500 seems overpriced. KBB is only at $1740 in cherry condition. I got my '93 two years ago with 2,900 miles for $1600. With what you mentioned it needs, It should be $1500 or less.
As for a first bike, my wife started on a Suzuki 250 single cruiser (nice and low, light and not much power) which seemed about perfect to learn on. Within a year, she wanted to do a little highway riding so we got here a 500R Ninja. She liked it, but it was a little too tall for her. She rode it a couple of years and then we sold it due to kids coming. Then we got the 400 Bandit and she rode it a few times, but she felt it was heavier and wider than the Ninja (key word is felt) and the high revving nature turned her off, so she always had an excuse not to ride. I wound up turing it into a track bike, so now we are both happy.