Alright then,.. so if I get what you're saying, they can generally be inspected, and tested, and only replaced if needed, like what r_outsider is used to,....
Of course the rub for us is that we're going to order parts from Bike Bandit (because otherwise it will be "6 weeks from the factory after they make them" if I order them locally. As with every other part we've tried to order for her in the past. ) So we'll have to order the parts and assume they need to be changed.
It's just a shame to order $60 worth of parts if they're not needed.
So,.. parts 3, 5, 10 and possibly 7 for both sides? Anything else "likely" to be needed on a 18 yr old bike with what I'm guessing will be original fork oil? (yes, I expect that to be rancid)