Hey Vidrazor
Are these all indicators of a bent shift fork? If so, is this a major project to correct?
No...this sounds pretty normal for the sliding dog type transmissions on motorcycles. Wear in the shift drum can make the shift to and from Nuetral, 1st & 2nd worse over time.
Going from Nuetral to 1st or 2nd while coasting is always going to be noisy, since your trying to force the dogs together while their speeds are different. You would need to "match" the correct engine rpm to the road speed in that gear to have a smooth shift.
However, if the transmission is "jumping" in and out of 2nd gear after you shifted, you either have a bent shift fork or damage to the dogs on the gears. This can be caused by or made worse by forcing the tranny into gear as you have described.
Generally, the tranny does not need to be "forced" to change gears, it should snick into the next gear without a lot of drama or noise.
Maybe you can descibe your "slipping" problem at high revs again?
a) if the clutch is "slipping", the revs will rise slowly without an increase in road speed, just like if you start pulling in the clutch lever while riding. Usually this is worse in higher gears, or when climbing hills.
b) if the transmission is acting up, you may get a jerky ride as if it is "jumping" out of gear, or if the shift fails, you will get a "missed" shift with the revs going to the moon, and you have to shift again.