Anyway, my problem is:
1/ I don't know exactly the size and thread of the output (at the bottom) and the 2 inputs (on top). I changed the copper gasket to start (but it got worst...) so I noted the bottom seems to be 10mm and the top 8mm but this is just a guess.
Are you saying that the oil line itself is leaking? Or are you saying that the line is leaking at its connection to the cylinder head? Or is it leaking from its connection to the crankcase?It sounds like you're saying you've got a leak from the point on the cylinder head where the oil pipe union bolt attaches to it, because you mention replacing the copper gasket on it.
The fact that you say the oil pipe union bolt leak got worse when you tried replacing the copper gasket (would the term "crush washer" be more appropriate?) makes me worry about the state of the threads in the aluminum of the cylinder head.
If there's a problem in the interface between the oil pipe union bolt and the threads in the cylinder head that it screws into the problem is almost certainly with the cylinder head threading rather than the bolt because the cylinder head is aluminum while the bolt is steel (soft aluminum vs. hard steel).
The relatively soft aluminum of the cylinder head vs. the much harder steel of the oil pipe union bolt is a recipe for damage due to over-torque of the bolt or perhaps some sort of cross-threading of the bolt during installation of the oil pipe union bolt, especially when an inexperienced mechanic is wielding the wrench.
When you pull the engine in December you should do a very careful inspection of the oil pipe threads in the cylinder head (if this is where your leak is coming from). The good news is if you find a damaged/stripped/crossthreaded situation it can be repaired pretty easily with a Helicoil thread replacement kit (a do-it-yourself solution that really does work well) or with a Timesert thread replacement insert which is more expensive and is usually done by a machinist at a machine shop.