Personally, I'm with your wife on this one. With the Busa being more blue & silver - and the gold fork legs being pretty much burried in the fairing, the gold levers don't work for me. Silver or CF would look better, IMHO.
Generally, unless they're total crap, most aftermarket levers are as good or better than OEM bits. And the only cheesy ones I've seen are universal style stuff like you'd put on an old trail bike.