I must relay that I recently attended such a funeral here in Okla City.
One of my coworkers recently lost her son in the Iraq war. He was 31, had a wife and children, and was killed in his tank by IED.
At the funeral, I noticed quite a few bikers in front of the church. Since I seldom watch the local news, I just assumed they were part of the local VFW / HOG chapter. When I got back to work, those that didn't attend asked me about the "war protesters". I said I knew of no protest, but saw the bikers & few folks standing across the street. Local TV and a helicopter were in the area but I assumed they actually cared about the grieving family.
I later checked this out. This is some extreme right-wing religious group from Kansas known as "God Hates Fags". I haven't a real clue why they were there just adding to the agony of the situation along with the ridiculous press that publicizes these fools.
I will say that these nuts made a smaller impression than the press and bikers for those of us that didn't know these fools existed until after the fact.
It seems that many profit from the pain of the suffering family.
Sorry, that's all I have to report. But it is a real observation.